How Do I Help My Wife Orgasm Again?

She’s not broken. You’re just overdue for an update.

Nov 22, 2025

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From: A Married Man Trying to Get It Right — 42, Auckland

Dear Eyeball,

I’ve been married sixteen years. Sex has always been good, but lately I can tell my wife never reaches orgasm with me anymore. Not emotionally — technically. She still wants sex, still initiates, still says she enjoys it, but her body doesn’t always follow.

I know she can get there on …

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